8.28.2006

Welcome

Since my boyfriend doesn't want to hear my complaints, and my girlfriends don't need to hear them, I'm going to log it here from now on, in the hopes that one day, after I am fed up enough, he might read this and glean a bit of insight into all the things he has done that have created the emotionally shut up girlfriend with the sewn shut vagina. Maybe my suggestions will come in handy when he finds his perfect girlfriend. Or serve as a warning for her. Whichever.

Enjoy the trainwreck.

29 comments:

Anonymous said...

awesome idea... sounds a lot like my bf

Anonymous said...

HA. This is a great idea. I just deleted my entire myspace because I was sick of bitching about my boyfriend of three years. Ha. Still stupidly with him. Oh we could have lots to share. vulgerlove

Anonymous said...

This is amazing...

cury said...

im and love with a guys how live and atl and i live and miami.we only been dayting for 5 mouth. and the funny part is he want me to move in with hem get marry and have kisd, we fight all the time and he's really jealous,he think everything ill say is a lie.sometime went we fight he call me bad name and ect...

i dont know if i should move in with hem or should just move on tried it make it work..,.

Audrey said...

You're awesome.

I love you're writing style, your attitude, and how you decided to vent about it here.

I wanted to create a whole website where girls could vent about how much their boyfriends sucked, and put in their own entries and discussion boards.

I'm on Xanga at http://j0hnny0nthesp0tx.xanga.com/.

-Audrey

Anonymous said...

Wow, this is going to be a great site for me! I just wanna say my boyfriend sucks worse than a black hole. He drains me and doesn't respect the fact that I would like to spend time with him above everyone else. Well, now that I realize I give him too much of me. We'll see what happens...it's as if I'm numb to him now and now guess who doesn't like it! I swear he wants everyone to revolve around him. Once again, Sucks worse than a black hole!!!!

moll132 said...

So i googled "my boyfriend sucks" in a moment of deep desperation and this came up and it basically made my day

Anonymous said...

Honestly, I googled "my boyfriend sucks", too. I feel the same way about my boyfriend in a lot of ways.

Anonymous said...

Random googling sent me to this page...and yes my boyfriend of a little over a year...is just draining me mentally and emotionally.
This man claims he "loves" me like no other, yet he hasn't given me shit. No flowers, no gifts, no tangible things of sentiment. I'm not a materialistic bitch, but damn, not even a 'card' for my freakin' birthday?
I was actually informed that because his cheating ex-wife did him wrong, all other women now have to pay the price for his affections. Including me.
And so he arrogantly proclaims, that I can't collect any brownie points with him as of yet, because I have not put in enough time with him. Can everyone please say "asshole behavior"? What past life did I screw up in, that I am paying through the butt for, NOW? Have mercy!

Anonymous said...

You are constantly complaining about your boyfriend and how terrible he is, but frankly, I don't think he's the problem. I think the problem is your anger and frustration all the time. You don't sound like a very nice person, and I think you should try to change that. You have a very egocentric point of view. Everything is about you you you and how your boyfriend is not fulfilling you in some way. You have to become a happy, healthy person first, then things will improve. Stop blaming everyone else for everything.

Anonymous said...

I love my boyfriend to death but all because i didn't buy him the black ops games he said i took what he loved and destroye and i said i have to earn his trust back!!

Anonymous said...

My bf gets upset when i dont want to give him a bj and i do most of the time, if he gets annoyed he punches me or kicks me and calls me names but sometimes i just ignore him on purpose because i cant fight back and that get him mad, plus he never wants to hear my complaints and says that is why he turns to porn because i got an attitute I might have one but im not extreme like him, i hate him when he behaves like that but when we get along i love him so much he is a good bf. idk what to do and how to cope with such a low self steem due to his actions and words, idk if anyone has the same situation where they hate and love the same person at different times

Anonymous said...

Oh my goodness, I get common issues with each one of you girls ... my boyfriend must be the worse of the WORSE! And to response to that person that posted on 11/01/2010 at 8:26 AM. Yea, I tried to become a happy, healthy person, but things didn't improve. He complaint that he can't feel that I'd changed. But if he loves me, why the hell would he want to change me in the first place? And what about him? I never ask him to change, but there are things that I want him to do for me and he doesn't do them and he expects me to do EVERYTHING that he asked me to do... I never give him any bad attitude when he doesn't please me, but boy, he's just #$@$#$! He's also cheapskate! he doesn't spend for me that often, and when does, he keeps on whining! omg, if you're gonna whine, just don't spend for me 'cause I don't ask, and if you don't want to spend for your gf, then don't have one! ... I wonder if he remember the first time that he cried to me, and I sat there listened to him and told him that I would always be there for him and he can always share with me, he said the same thing back, but everytime I have something that I need to let out, he's too annoy to listen ... *Sigh* I don't get it, why do I still love him? and just can't leave him no matter how many time I tried to, I just can't ... and I know that deserve better ...

Anonymous said...

WISH YOU COULD KEEP WRITTING, WHAT HAPPENED?

Anonymous said...

holy crap, you need to start this thing up again!! This blog is almost identical to what my inner monologue has been for the past few months, you must have dated a clone of the d-bag I'm with!

Anonymous said...

Love that this exsits. Well ill just go right ahead and start venting about how terrible my bf is! I am a last priority to his oh so "demanding" marketing job where all he does all day is play golf, go for drnks on patios and stay out late. Not only does he have this "awesome" job but drives a nice car but the thing that wasnt shared with me when we first started going out was that he chooses not to drive it and gets me to taxi his ass around everywhere. He has such a short temper and loses it over me putting his toothbrush in the shower. I am simply going NUTS!!!!

Anonymous said...

My boyfriend sucks big time. I bought him a very expensive ring and he lost it. He didnt buy me anything for my birthday but bought his friend's girlfriend perfume for her birthday. Whenever I have money I think of him and buy something nice or take him out. When he has money he buys himself lavish gifts or goes out with his friends. He flakes on me all the time. He lies to me. He leaves me alone or ignores me when he feels like. He's very selfish in sex. He keeps me a secret from everyone. He counts the $ when it comes to me. If I try to open up to him about problems in my family he tells me he doesnt want drama in his life. If I tell him I dont agree with something he's doing he tells me he doesnt need my permission and to keep it to myself. He does things that will hurt me behind my back. He counts on his friend's wife instead of me. He talks to me rudely, if he's busy he tells me dont bother me. I'm pregnant and he doesnt buy me food or check on me. He just f'ing sucks and I dont know why im still with him i guess for the baby

Anonymous said...

He didn't visit me in the hospital because he was too tired but he always visits his sick friends and takes care of them. He always spends on himself but not on me. He talks to me in a rude way. I just hate him im so sick of him

Anonymous said...

I feel like my boyfriend is constantly playing mind games with me... or it just has to do with the fact that i'm a needy, naive, desparate little girl with daddy complex issues and is afraid he's just waiting for something better to come along. i hadn't heard from him in 3 days, and when i met up with him and bitched about it, he replied with; "i just didn't feel like talking" but he can chat away and text his buddys all day? cant find 1 minute to shoot a stupid techno text that says hi? thinking of you? used to do it all the time now i'm pretty sure i'm an inconvenience. i want to play hard to get and just ignore the fuck out of him back but its hard work for me...i don't want to play games..we both hate cell phones and technology because i think it's honestly the root to all these problems. if im not in constant contact, its like immediately: omgomgomgomgomgomg wtffff...people used to have to write letters to talk to their boyfriend and see them twice a month if they were lucky. we see each other twice a week he lives 45 minutes away i dont know what he does when im not around, even though i DO know, i just let my imagination fuck with me. oh well i'm doomed forever.

Anonymous said...

OMG this is my new favorite site.

Anonymous said...

Oh where to begin,well my boyfriends mom told me he was cheating on me. it was true, while i was at work at my 2 jobs, he was out getting drunk with some ho everyday, And he'd take our 1 year old child with him. Then his girlfriemd wreck our car because the stupid bitch was drunk...once again my baby was in the car!! My bf has elipesy and shouldn't take ANY kind of drugs,so of course when someone offers him a zantex he takes it. That makes perfect sense right? He gets in the car ro go home and has a seizure. My baby is in the backseat. If his step brother wasn't in the car,My duaghter might be dead. He of course doesn't tell me this was because of drugs, he tells me it was because he doesn't get enough sleep, cause he has to get up too early to take me to work. So i have to quit one of my jobs. He didn't have a job.

Anonymous said...

Yes random googling got me here, but it's my own fault for being with a boyfriend who- let me tell ya ladies- SUCKS!!

Anonymous said...

My boyfriend sucks! I am hot, he hasn't had sex with me in a month. The only communication I get from him is about things I do wrong. He is always pointing out my flaws. I love to run and exercise and really have too because I love to eat! My body is pretty toned. I could use some more touching up, but couldn't we all? Everytime I want sugar, he freaks out. You just have to have desert don't you? Then I have this older friend (not a sugar daddy) who gives me money. My boyfriend says it is his money and I have to give it to him. Makes me sick! He also tried to cheat on me!

Minniemz said...

My bf sucks too! Cheapskate and major cheapskate. How I wish I never met him! He drains me emotionally. Loves playing stupid mind games with me. Showed me bags and jewelry thru skype which he never gave to me. Tells me crap line about testing if I'm materialistic. Never greeted me on my birthday and gave me gift. Then reconciled when my birthday was over. Great right! Made a stupid excuse. Gave him another chance still. I'm just dumb. Always tells me he wants us to marry but never proposed.

I feel ashamed. And to think people tell me I am attractive. All my exes treated me like a princess. He takes me for granted. Gambles a lot but cheap with me. Plus he is so paranoid checks my phone all the time. I just hate him so much and I'm gonna break up with his dumb ass! I've had enough!

anonymous said...

I'm so miserable I don't even know where to begin.Hmmm when I think of that ANIMAL of a boyfriend I'm dating this is what comes to mind: douche, cheapskate, psycho, coward, liar, cheater, abuser, manipulator, fake, deadbeat, alcoholic, drug addict, thief, weird, honkie ass, white trash, dirty, no job having mother fucker comes to mind!!!!! He'd rather hang out with a bunch of men than his own dam girlfriend and I'm sick of of being second best! I want to leave him so bad and Ive tried so many times but I always seem to come back to this misery uugghhh what is wrong with me??? I want to be happy and when I'm with him I am nothing but an anxious, paranoid, empty vessel. Will it ever end?

Anonymous said...

My bf doesn't have phone minutes, so no phone on him (but affords $300 for beer per month). He just went away to a music fest for 3 days. Called the first day he arrived, from his bro's phone, and he said he would call me again, but the service is sketchy, which is mentioned on the concert site, but still, today's the coming home day. He still hasn't called back. It ended at midnite last night, so they should all be hauling back in the car, WITH service 20 hours later. They were only 11 hrs. away. Where the f@&$ is this liar? If you're not going to call AT ALL, don't say that. Just say nothing. I'm annoyed at being with him for 5 yrs. and letting my grown-ass waste away in this damn house we share for now. After my court case next month which requires I still live at this address, I'll remember this time he couldn't be a man and ask to use his friend's phone like he always does. Why wouldn't he? That's what I'm wondering. He's so idiotic, just a waste basket, 26 yrs old doesn't brush his teeth, and I want to make-out damn it! With someone who cleans their mouth for both of us. I know he doesnt wanna change , but brushing your teeth is something that should have been done before me too.. Ehh. Can't wait to see him and wonder wtf am I doing here?

Anonymous said...

Stop whining and/or making up stories that you think will win you pity and attention. It's pathetic. Hellooo..break up with the douche bags. Don't sit here and bitch. Seriously, insaaane.

Anonymous said...

Boyfriends are STUPID AND OVERRATED. Just now mine was all, "DON'T change my background on my mac to Rob Zombie and Criss Angel; keep it as the triforce from the ZELDA(tm) series." And I was all, why the hell am I in this relationship, I don't know who you are anymore, I am converting to lesbanese

Anonymous said...

Hi ladies, I notice a trend here.. guys suck balls...their expectations are always above what we can give, this is how some guys keep us ladies confused and hurt. I have been there a few times and when a guy knows u need them your screwed. Hint..play the game I say, it actually pisses off guys who are assholes regardless of age. Every bf I have had has problems with authority and dominance...I got tired of it anf started dominating myself...they do not like it oh fucking well. I know its hard to hold your grounf but try it. You may end up without the douche but know this, there is always another aroubd the corner...if he lasts through the bullshit u dish out hes a keeper. Always remember our minds often utilize multitasking, men do not. This is from someone who knows men...all ethnicities, just a note white guys bitch and lie, mexicans almost always cheat and soul brothas are most of the time straight up..your always # 3.